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    Quote Originally Posted by Milktini View Post
    Yes, I did ask what would you do in this incident, not what would you have done to prevent it. How was I to know he would actually physically harm my child. Also, I had no idea he was at my parents house when we arrived(as he is their friend and it is their house), they were playing fine and then the next moment he bit my son, it wasn't something any of us expected, there are thousand of a$$holes in the world but you don't expect them to actually inflict pain, how am I supposed to explain to a 4year old that he can't play with X because mummy doesn't like him, I kept a close eye on them, like I said, one second they were playing, the next hit bit him.

    Anyway, not that I should have had to justify myself just thought I would put across what the situation was actually like.

    To everyone else, thankyou, the police contacted me and they have recieved the report from the hospital, i'll be going in tomorrow when the kids are in daycare to give a statement and it will go from there. Thanks again for all the support and wishes, DS1 is fine, i'm still pretty annoyed/angry/upset about the situation but feel like i'm doing the right thing.
    Just saw this- glad you have the police involved. Best of luck for the rest of the process.

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    Glad you have taken the steps you need to. I hope it all resolves for you.
    Fwiw, I would have done the same as you!

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    Sorry this happened to you and your son.


    I would have done the same as you.
    If this guy can bite another child whilst the child's parents are around I would hate to think what he might be capable of, if by chance he wound up with a child alone for a few mins.

    You said your ds also has bruising?
    I would take some more photos of the bruising as days go by if you aren't already.

    So sorry this happened to your son

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rachell View Post

    You said your ds also has bruising?
    I would take some more photos of the bruising as days go by if you aren't already.
    This for sure.

    I hope your son is ok!

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    Good on you for going to the hospital and getting it reported, that would have been hard to do. I would be so upset! Hope you all feel better soon.

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    I personally would call the police, but still emphasize the fact that the guy has a mental problem due to an accident. That way the cops dont just rush in and arrest him and trigger some kind of erratic and out of control reaction from this guy. The police would have to organize a mental health worker or psychiatrist to be available when the guy is being questioned.
    I believe people with such an illness need to be treated differently from the real full on criminals who murder people for fun.

    Let's hope he wont do this ever again with any other child. Poor kid

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    Good to hear that the Police are ontop of it now and that you can go in and give your statement. I hope DS is okay and not too sore and that you can get some resolution and the opportunity to wind down from the incident.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkingClassMum View Post
    ((hugs)).

    Seeing that he drew blood I would have to make a report to the police.

    I'd also take my child to the hospital for fear of infection and other potential diseases.
    this

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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkingClassMum View Post
    ((hugs)).

    Seeing that he drew blood I would have to make a report to the police.

    I'd also take my child to the hospital for fear of infection and other potential diseases.
    this


 

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