To cut a long story short my brother is getting married and I cannot stand his fiancé! She is seriously one of the most unpleasant people I have ever met she treats my brother terribly, isolates him from friends and family, is always on his case and often abuses him in front of people. She lies constantly and about the most unusual things, she has even told lies to get ds 2 in trouble (said that he jumped on her head, but didn't realise dh was watching). She is really unpleasant to b around (just sits in there with a sour face occasionally sighing or Rollin her eyes) I really think she has a mental illness. I have discussed this with my brother and last time they had a fight he told her she needed to seek help but now they are not fighting it has been 'overlooked.
Sorry for the rant.... Back to my question....
She has asked me to be one of her bridesmaids (she is having 2). I have really tried to get along with her and b a helpful bridesmaid but I just cannot deal with her erratic behavior anymore or the way she treats my brother and the rest of my family. She has NO friends at all so it won't b easy for her to get someone else
I'm worried that if I tell her I'm not going to do it she will take it out on my brother and possibly tell him he needs to drop one of his groomsmen.... But I just cannot stand the thought of spending time with her!... I can't pretend to like her anymore and I certainly can't b a helpful and enthusiastic bridesmaid!!
Wat do I do?!?