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    Default Why can we just be friends??

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    Whoops my heading should be why 'can't' we just be friends ... If a moddy could fix it 😃 please and thanks.

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    I think that some men can be douchebags. And you are probably extremely attractive and they can't help themselves

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    A few thoughts came to mind when I read this. The biggest being End of Friendship, coming a short second was why did you respond with "that's fantastic"??? I would have been more "are you serious? Not only do I not see you that way but wth is wrong with you? YOUR MARRIED!"

    Some blokes just can't cope having us women folk as friends. Most of my mates are guys and honestly I know a few have been keen (and at least 2 have had gfs at the time) but I made it clear there isn't a chance in hell that their getting my pants off. Ever. If that wasn't cool, see ya later.

    In this case he's been very blunt and open about it. To me it sounds like if you had reacted with any sort of encouragement he'd continue and attempt to make it physical. Not cool. Time for you to fall off the radar and be 'busy' all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by happygrl View Post
    I think that some men can be douchebags. And you are probably extremely attractive and they can't help themselves
    They absolutely can be ... And I'm not. I'm just normal

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkplease3 View Post
    A few thoughts came to mind when I read this. The biggest being End of Friendship, coming a short second was why did you respond with "that's fantastic"??? I would have been more "are you serious? Not only do I not see you that way but wth is wrong with you? YOUR MARRIED!"

    Some blokes just can't cope having us women folk as friends. Most of my mates are guys and honestly I know a few have been keen (and at least 2 have had gfs at the time) but I made it clear there isn't a chance in hell that their getting my pants off. Ever. If that wasn't cool, see ya later.

    In this case he's been very blunt and open about it. To me it sounds like if you had reacted with any sort of encouragement he'd continue and attempt to make it physical. Not cool. Time for you to fall off the radar and be 'busy' all the time.

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    I'm not sure he actually would have attempted anything. But honestly if you're attracted to me and you're married. Just keep it to yourself!! I don't need to know about it!!


 

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