I grew up in an open house and could offload onto mum, dad or my brother whenever you needed.
My dad grew up in an abusive repressive house and never wanted that for us kids.
OH on the the other hand grew up in an abusive home but his mother taught him to suck it up because 'this is the way it is'.
I had a cancer scare and OH flipped when he heard me tell my mother!
Said that I shouldn't burden her with news like that.
I let DS work through his feelings, I want him to know that family is always there to help and if you don't feel sad, angry or frustrated sometimes how would you know when you are truly happy?
Later we will work on self control in public.