Need to vent as I can't get cranky at my OH till he gets home. I am 15 weeks pregnant and his two boys from a previous relationship are coming to visit this weekend (he is on his way home from collecting them now). We were planning on telling them this weekend about the baby. I texted him to find out what was happening with dinner and whatnot only to find out that he told the boys about the baby 5 mins before he called me! He told them without me! I am so upset! This is my first baby and I struggle to feel like a part of thier little family at the best of times and now he pulls this! Way to shove me right aside!
I told him that I wished he had waited and he just laughed and said "I couldnt but its all good". He just doesnt get it. This could have been such a bonding family moment and he just stole it from me.
I am keeping in mind the hormones and part of me is wondering whether I am overreacting but I feel sad now. This meant alot to me and he doesnt even get why I would be less than thrilled about it.