So here goes...
My SIL had to abort her pregnancy at 26 weeks as they found the baby had over 20 deformaties and would have little or no chance of survival, so she gave birth to a stillborn baby boy on the 3rd of December.
It was such a horrible thing for my Brother and SIL to go through I cant imagine..
I had an ectopic in Jan and had left tube removed, then fell pregnant right after and that ended in miscarriage. NOW I am pregnant again and everything is going great will be 7 weeks tomorrow..
My mum has just informed me that my SIL has had 3 miscarriages since Noah's birth on the 3rd and she wants me to wait untill atleast 4 months to start telling the rest of the family and my mum feels like it would be rubbing salt into my SIL wounds if they find out!!
I feel terribly sorry for my Brother and SIL but I also feel I have had a rough trot aswell for the past few months..
To get to the point I blew up at my mum and wont speak to her untill she apologises...
What are you thoughts on the situation? (I just feel like I have every right to be excited about this baby and if the tables were turned I would be happy)