i want to start trying for a second baby in sept this year, which means if sucessful, i'll be due the june or july, next year. Four months after my oldest turns three, the questions i'm asking is... do i need a two seater stroller or just buy one just to have it? did putting your oldest to kindy once or twice a week help with the lack of sleep? how did you entertain your toddler while you had a newborn? any tips for handling a bigger age gap and how did you cope? and was there jealous behaviour? thanks x