We have been trying for nearly 2.5 years. After 12 months of trying our GP recommended IVF Australia. My DH and I had unexplained infertility at this time i was 31 and he was 32. We did our first IUI and got a BFN. We went straight into IVF 15 eggs extracted, 10 fertilised and 4 made it to 5 day blasts. The fresh transfer failed, the first FET was a chem BFP failed after 4 days. The 2nd FET both final froz embs died before transfer.
For the next fresh round of IVF we decided to go to the 'most advanced' fertility
specialist with Genea CBD. My DH and I have also significantly improved our health between the two cycles I.e. Stopped smoking, exercised and ate organic products. We went to see one of the best Dr's at Genea knowing that even though they are more expensive having the best FS, clinic and doing acupuncture should guarantee our first succesful BFP. The FS was fantastic explained the process better and how there shouldn't be problems. The clinic was much more professional so the
experience was much more pleasant.
We managed to get 17 eggs (3 were seen to be bad and immediately destroyed) so 14 in total. On day 1 after extraction the embryologists said only 4 fertilized. We
couldn't believe this round could be worse than the previous. The 5 days leading to
the transfer was very stressful much more than our experience with IVF Australia.
Day 3 we still had 4 embryos but by day 5 only 1 made it that was of day 4 quality I.e. hadn't reached blast stage. The other 3 had not grown but we requested to transfer 2 embs so one of the bad embs and the better quality emb was transferred. The day of preg test AF arrived with no frozens to coninue with. All this doesn't make sense to me. We have a follow up appointment with FS in 3 weeks since he is away.
I feel so devastated and confused..I hate to change clinics again especially since Genea is meant to be the "world leaders" I don't have the strength for more failures. Everyone around me is pregnant or has had babies We can't take it anymore especially since my DH and I don't have some of the problems that causes infertility. Does anyone have any thoughts that can help? Should we stick it out with Genea and give it another go? Please help...