So "fob" has decided that he's father of the year, as he has finally recognised how traumatising it is for DS1 to fly 4 hours to see him (another post entirely). So he is flying here for 4 days.. Urgh. I haven't seen him in about 5 years and just dreading it. He still acts like a 21yr old and is just a tool.
So he wants to take DS to a night AFL match and then drive home afterward. We live well over an hour away on a massive awful freeway and there is a few exits etc, it's not a straight run.
So I've refused.
He doesn't know the roads, traffic etc. I have a fear of freeways, car accidents, trucks that I have actually sort professional help for as I was unable to drive on busy roads for over a year (so even the thought of this makes me anxious...)
He has lost his license previously and I have no idea what his driving sense is like.
I barely actually know the guy to be quite frank. We've barely had any positive or regular contact in 7 years.
So...? Am I justified or is this just a sub conscious bitter act??