Im no stronger or more determined than any other woman, I just had the 'luck' to get through that hard patch (and while I couldnt exclusively feed, I still decided to do what feeds I could)
Maybe next time Ill make a different decision. Even though Im still me, I will have a different birth and recovery, and maybe I will feel that my mental health (with a toddler and a newborn, on top of my medical issues) needs me to supplement feed or switch to formula all together.
Or maybe I will just not want to breastfeed? And that should be my right, without being questioned over whether I tried hard enough.
I think EVERY woman tries exactly hard enough to breastfeed.