+ Reply to Thread
Page 18 of 25 FirstFirst ... 81617181920 ... LastLast
Results 171 to 180 of 248
  1. #171
    Join Date
    Oct 2009
    Posts
    5,276
    Thanks
    3,697
    Thanked
    3,090
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by Benji View Post
    Girl X, bottle feeding a 1 day old baby in our society would probably be as "normal" in terms of how common it is as a mother breastfeeding a 3 year old.

    I just wish people could keep their rude opinions to themselves (not you girl x) because the attitudes I've read in the past few days is the exact reason why I was housebound and depressed when DS was a newborn due to my fear of 'exposing' myself in public by breastfeeding, and having to keep it 'secret' from family and friends as to how long I actully breastfed him due to the shame I was forced to feel simply for doing something completely natural and absolutely non-sexual in any way.
    Sorry - having a slow brain afternoon - do you mean that the same % of people bottlefeed their 1 day old babies as BF their 3 yr olds?

    And I do agree. This thread was obviously set up to explore people's opinions, so I have no issue in here with different thoughts - as long as they are conveyed respectfully.

    But in greater society, I really do take your point. I feel for anyone who hides away like that, for fear of people getting the wrong idea. The last thing any mother needs is to be worried about what other people think, and unfortunately we do all seem to have to do that - for varying reasons.

  2. #172
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Posts
    3,037
    Thanks
    1,498
    Thanked
    730
    Reviews
    2
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    I never felt weird about BF (I did till 3months old ) or bottle in public..didn't think anyone would really care..as I don't care what people do..

    Do people really notice if you have a boob or bottle in your kids mouth?...not from my experience ...although have to admit seeing a almost 4 year old Bf I would probably having a second look....

  3. #173
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Posts
    12,708
    Thanks
    9,558
    Thanked
    12,691
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 postsEmerald Star - 10,000 posts
    Awards:
    Busiest Member of the Week - week ended 9/1/15Busiest Member of the Week - week ended 7/11/14Busiest Member of the Week - week ended 3/10/14100 Posts in a week
    Quote Originally Posted by Thermolicious View Post
    But why would he be embarrassed?

    Do you think this baby will be embarrassed? Attachment 22008
    Kids get embarassed being around their parents when they're older. Imagine how a kid might feel if his schoolmates got hold of the picture of him sucking on his mothers breast. Whether its right or wrong kids are cruel. They tease others for simple things such as a persons name rhymes with something funny. They will have a field day with this photo.

  4. The Following User Says Thank You to VicPark For This Useful Post:

    Sunshinemoonlight  (12-05-2012)

  5. #174
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Posts
    6,728
    Thanks
    663
    Thanked
    862
    Reviews
    15
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Kids get embarassed being around their parents when they're older. Imagine how a kid might feel if his schoolmates got hold of the picture of him sucking on his mothers breast. Whether its right or wrong kids are cruel. They tease others for simple things such as a persons name rhymes with something funny. They will have a field day with this photo.
    Yeah I really doubt that hey... I don't think a kid would ever think, Oh might do some research on X and see if there is a photo of him breastfeeding as a child, expecially as a primary school kid, Imean how would they seriously find it?
    My parents have photos of me completely naked in a muddy creek holding an (empty) can of alcohol, I find this more embarassing then a photo of me breastfeeding.

    ETA - I should also add DP was breastfed until 4, he's not embarassed about it at all, actually he wishes his first son was breastfed(for whatever reasons bio mum chose not to, is he decision and he recpects that) But he can't wait until out little boy is breastfed and is 100% supportive of me breastfeeding into toddlerhood and i'll be making sure I have heaps of photographic evidence, we aren't emabarssed and to be honest i'm that comfortable in my choices, I don't feel it needs to be justified to anybody else, and I assume the mother on Times is just as comfortable in her deicisons aswell.
    Last edited by Littlemissmetal; 12-05-2012 at 15:17.

  6. The Following User Says Thank You to Littlemissmetal For This Useful Post:

    jacobsmamma  (12-05-2012)

  7. #175
    headoverfeet's Avatar
    headoverfeet is offline The truth will set you free, but first it will **** you off. -Gloria Steinem
    Join Date
    Nov 2007
    Location
    Australia
    Posts
    18,954
    Thanks
    3,142
    Thanked
    4,892
    Reviews
    1
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 postsEmerald Star - 10,000 postsRuby Star - 15,000 posts
    Awards:
    100 Posts in a week
    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Kids get embarassed being around their parents when they're older. Imagine how a kid might feel if his schoolmates got hold of the picture of him sucking on his mothers breast. Whether its right or wrong kids are cruel. They tease others for simple things such as a persons name rhymes with something funny. They will have a field day with this photo.
    Omg oooo so what about all those babies that came out of their mothers vaginas, isn't that just like having sex with them

  8. #176
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Brisbane
    Posts
    44
    Thanks
    102
    Thanked
    20
    Reviews
    0
    Quote Originally Posted by Thermolicious View Post
    Omg oooo so what about all those babies that came out of their mothers vaginas, isn't that just like having sex with them
    Seriously Thermolicious, your posts are just getting ridiculous and stupid now. Just Like your one with the baby and the McDonald's bun!!!

  9. The Following User Says Thank You to Sunshinemoonlight For This Useful Post:

    Guest654  (12-05-2012)

  10. #177
    Join Date
    Oct 2009
    Posts
    5,276
    Thanks
    3,697
    Thanked
    3,090
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    I think some people are being really honest about how they feel in this thread, and expressing their opinions quite respectfully.

    It seems like unless you say "Well I don't feel at ALL strange about it" then your opinion isn't respected in return. And it's really not such an odd opinion to have - I think we've all agreed that it is one that is fairly common in the society in which we live.

    I'm not saying everyone has to agree, but I can definitely get why there aren't many people admitting to feeling confronted by the image in this thread.

  11. #178
    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    Location
    in the heart :)
    Posts
    1,902
    Thanks
    290
    Thanked
    504
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by Thermolicious View Post
    Omg oooo so what about all those babies that came out of their mothers vaginas, isn't that just like having sex with them
    Brilliant!

    The image is confronting, but only because society deems it so. Ill BF my babies for as long as i can, im aiming for 2, only because i dont really see the 'need' for a 3yo to receive breastmilk, but im not opposed to bfing a 3yo if that is what happens either. And i wont be hiding behind closed doors to do it either

    I think the rise of attachment parenting is a good thing and nothing to be ashamed of. Children arent puppies who have to be trained to sleep all night, for example.

    Id never heard of attachment parenting when i had DD 5 years ago. Heck id never even really held a baby before i had DD. I knew nothing. I knew of no society expectations for how babies 'should' be raised. I ended up just doing what came naturally, which in our case was co-sleeping, breastfeeding, baby wearing parenting. I didnt even realise it had a label or wasnt the norm in society. Im glad i never realised some people have issues with such things. Ive never once felt bad or guilty or judged for my parenting decisions.

    Good on those women and children for going so public in todays culture, and good on time mag for having the balls to publish the story.

    Sent from my GT-I9100T using BubHub

  12. The Following User Says Thank You to Super Trooper For This Useful Post:

    Theophania  (12-05-2012)

  13. #179
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Posts
    10,306
    Thanks
    3,126
    Thanked
    6,314
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 postsEmerald Star - 10,000 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Kids get embarassed being around their parents when they're older. Imagine how a kid might feel if his schoolmates got hold of the picture of him sucking on his mothers breast. Whether its right or wrong kids are cruel. They tease others for simple things such as a persons name rhymes with something funny. They will have a field day with this photo.
    I don't get what's embarrassing about a child sucking ( feeding) on his mothers breast? I fear though its attitudes like yours that encourage people to feel embarrassed? I would be mortified if my son ever associated breast feeding as embarrassing or g-d forbid teased anyone about it

  14. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Elijahs Mum For This Useful Post:

    jacobsmamma  (12-05-2012),Theophania  (12-05-2012)

  15. #180
    Join Date
    Sep 2008
    Posts
    2,020
    Thanks
    93
    Thanked
    564
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    I think the whole thing could have been done a lot more tastefully.
    It's good she feels proud of this but I really disagree with the "Mum enough", quite belittling to those who can't or chose not to BF.


 

Similar Threads

  1. Breastfeeding cover and pillow?
    By Piffle in forum Breastfeeding Support
    Replies: 3
    Last Post: 20-05-2012, 08:45
  2. "Provactive" breastfeeding image on TIME cover stirs up storm
    By Lilahh in forum Pregnancy & Parenting In The News
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 12-05-2012, 10:39
  3. Breastfeeding number 2: how different to first time around?
    By Smooshy in forum Breastfeeding Support
    Replies: 23
    Last Post: 24-03-2012, 20:46

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
free weekly newsletters | sign up now!
who are these people who write great posts? meet our hubbub authors!
Learn how you can contribute to the hubbub!

reviews
learn how you can become a reviewer!

competitions

forum - chatting now
christmas gift guidesee all Red Stocking
Mother and Baby Shop
Save $$$ during our Christmas Sale Mother and Baby Shop
Great prices on Schoenhut kids pianos, toys, baby clothing as well as big brands like Pigeon, NUK, Cherub Baby and many more. Sale starts on 1 November 2016 and ends on the 27 December 2016. Hurry! Place your order today!
sales & new stuffsee all
Bub Hub Sales Listing
HAVING A SALE? Let parents know about it with a Bub Hub Sales listing. Listings are featured on our well trafficked Sales Page + selected randomly to appear on EVERY page
featured supporter
KindyROO
KindyROO offers activities for babies & toddlers in a fun learning centre, focussing on developmental education. Classes are available at three Brisbane and two Gold Coast locations. Enrol today & help your child to reach their full potential. Visit the website to find out more.
gotcha
X

Pregnant for the first-time?

Not sure where to start? We can help!

Our Insider Programs for pregnancy first-timers will lead you step-by-step through the 14 Pregnancy Must Dos!