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    There is light at the end of the tunnel honey. Remember that you are a great mum to your kids and that you deserve to be happy. There is someone out there who will treat you like a princess and worship the ground you walk on, who would never in a million years treat you the way that your ex has.

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    You just need to keep reminding yourself if he is going to treat someone he "loves" like this then he really doesn't deserve a wonderful person like you!!! He really doesn't and ask yourself, do you want to be with someone who doesn't value you? Don't give up and settle for second best and remember just take things one day at a time. Are his family supportive of you?

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    His mum n aunties are but they work strange shifts so can't call when I need n his mum said she is here for me. He told me tonight he has feelings for her yet he's never met her. But cared enough to come round here I dont know my best friend says he's hurting just hiding it where as I can't hide my hurt I really feel so messed up I've not felt this low in years

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    He knows he's hurting you and consciously making the decision to continue to hurt you.
    You know you deserve better...so start thinking of what u can do to rebuild ur life. It sux that u have no one there to confide in but maybe you can phone one of your closer friends and have a chat... Even tho it's not face to face I'm sure it'll help.

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    So he came over this arvo n I cried he told me he still has love for me n there will always be a place for me told him I still love him n will always want our family to work n he said we will take it day at a time. Cause who knows what could happen that we need to stay friends for the kids Gives me hope I guess but also said ATM he just doesn't know n looked like he was about to cry told me he never meant for any of this to happen told me he will still help me with kids n we gotta put them first n stay friends it's so bloody hard. Do I send the 500 page txt to him declaring my love for him n wanting things to work or do I leave it

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    Geez relationships are so complex huh? I have no answers but I truly hope you do what is right for you. Many massive hugs. xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by becandabub View Post
    Geez relationships are so complex huh? I have no answers but I truly hope you do what is right for you. Many massive hugs. xx
    They are it's crazy once he left I'm now sitting here bawling my eyes out just hurting n wanting my Lil family back together his mum told me to stay friends with him n see where it goes from there n tht there is light at the end of tunnel I hope there's a plan to all of this otherwise I might end up in a padded room

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    Quote Originally Posted by jagamoe View Post
    They are it's crazy once he left I'm now sitting here bawling my eyes out just hurting n wanting my Lil family back together his mum told me to stay friends with him n see where it goes from there n tht there is light at the end of tunnel I hope there's a plan to all of this otherwise I might end up in a padded room
    Stuff seems bad right now, but honestly time heals everything. Whatever you decide, know that either way you'll find a way to be ok. You're much stronger than you know. xxx

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    Ok so with mothers day today he brought me pres from kids said happy mothers day we went to his Nans family day had an ok day mucked around played soccer together with kids showed me film clip on oh cuddle acting like used to be but he got Narky at my touching him so I asked him why I even bothered trying to make myself look good in the hope he would notice he said he did just didn't say anything ?? He also txt her today I saw it over his shoulder couldn't read it but knew it was her I cried our DS was sick all day n had to go hospital be checked out. He's still there with. Him now having to get chest X-ray they think maybe pneumonia it scares the crap outta me DS being suck n I'm not there cause I've gotta watch our DD It breaks my heart n makes me realise how much our kids n him mean to me n how much I want our family n relationship to work. His mum has told me to let him go for now try stay friends cause friendship is base of relationships n to hope for the best. It's so hard cause all I wanna Do is break down n cry n beg him to come home but I don't wanna push him away I don't know. Do I keep trying to talk about it or act like I don't care I'm scared if I act like I don't care he will think I don't. Argh I want a magic fix for this it bloody hurts so much

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    He knows how u feel. Just leave it for now and concentrate on the kids... If he wants u he will be there.... I'm sorry it hurts so much and I hope u get enough strength to move on.
    Hope ur DS is better soon and home with u... I can imagine how hard it is not being with him.


 

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