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    Okaaaaaay

    DH has a long time female friend, one that I have never liked very much.
    She moved away years ago.

    But, he ran into her whilst interstate with his mates (in her state). They caught up over a coffee.
    Fine, he told me all about it.

    DH has never liked FB. But he recently opened his own account to stay in touch with a professional car photographer, he's a mutual friend, all good, DH is a car enthusiast.

    We have at home a PC and a laptop. We share the PC. But since I started studying, and DH hogs the computer with Ebay, I got myself a laptop so I could continue with my homework and study wirelessly.

    On Saturday night, I was out at a work function.
    Sunday morning, I turn on my laptop, and DH had been on it, fine. He does that sometimes while we are watching TV.

    ANyhoooo.....the browsing history showed in order:
    FB message to ***
    *** airlines, search for flights.
    *** motel, in our state.

    AND DH now has FB on his mobile - something he has always thought was dumb and teased his workmates for doing it.

    Look, I trust my DH 100%. We have a happy home and family life.
    It's her I don't like or trust, plus she has a bad track record IYKWIM.

    I have worked myself up into a tizzy over this.
    DH wouldn't, at least I think he wouldn't, cheat on me.
    And if it was anyone else that he was messaging, I couldn't care less.
    It's her, that's why I am furious.

    I did ask him randomly about the flights he was searching and he said he was looking them up for a trip for him and his mates to go interstate next month for the drags nationals. Fine, fair call.
    But it's the motel in our state that followed that's got me curious. He would NEVER take me there, he has more class than that.
    Plus we have already booked a resort for July for our wedding anniversary.

    Sooooo, I found her on FB, sent an annonomous (sp?) message (I haven't said a word to her in years anyway) telling her to get nicked without mentioning any names.........
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    So HE wrote her a fb message.
    Then HE searched for airfares.
    Then HE searched for motels in your state.

    I'm sorry, I don't understand why you're in a tizzy at her?

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    I'd tell her to back the f off if I was you...

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    Wow.... She has some nerve!!

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    I think sending her a message is a bad, bad idea. If you need to, talk to your husband. He is the one FB messaging her and looking up flights etc. Otherwise maybe stop snooping and let her live her life and you worry about yours.

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    Won't she just report back to your husband that you've sent her some message from a fake facebook account, and then he'll either continue doing what he was intending to do covertly, or he'll be annoyed because you're sneaking around?

    If I was suspicious, I would either voice it to my partner, or keep very quiet so he wouldn't suspect I was monitoring his facebook etc.

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    I agree with a pp. He is the one sending messages ect. I'd just ask him what's going on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Urban Tumbleweed View Post
    So HE wrote her a fb message.
    Then HE searched for airfares.
    Then HE searched for motels in your state.

    I'm sorry, I don't understand why you're in a tizzy at her?
    Sorry I'm thinking this too :/ if my dp changed that much and did that I'd be asking questions

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    Eesh, thats too much for me to be just like " ok fine fair enough" with everything he is saying. Sounds like big ol convenient liesss to me.

    And trust me she owes u nothing, especially if ur sending her anon messages.


    Talk to your husband. He is the on in a marriage talking to other people and looking up hotels.

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    Talk to him it could just be a miss understanding


 

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