I was best friends with a girl for 7 years. I helped her through numerour ivf attempts. Then her marriage broke up and she basically lived with my husband and I. When she wasn't with me she was talking to me on the phone. It was a terrible time for her and I tried to help her through it. Then she met a guy and he had his own friends and didn't really want to be friends with us. So she saw us less and less and then not at all. It really hurt because she was our kids godparent and doesn't see them anymore. I can genuinely say that after what she did, I don't want to be friends with her anymore. So why is it that when I heard that she had had a baby the other day that I feel so hurt about it? I feel like after all the bad stuff I had to help her through it would have been nice to see the good stuff. Does this make sense to anyone? Because it is doing my head in at the moment.