Mybooboo I think the sensitivity in this topic is that there might be a concern that people who haven't gone through IVF *might* use it as an opportunity to question whther IVF is a good idea at all. I got very hot under the collar when this thread started as one poster made a comment to the effect that she supported IVF up to a reasonable age. Um thanks but this is an IVF thread so comments like that just aren't necessary and may upset people. It's not a question of sticking your head in the sand. My request to move this to a more general area of the forum was clearly felt not warranted, but this topic does upset people particularly those who might be pregnant.
But that's just my view and I can't speak for anyone else.