At 20 I was a single mother of twins, you wouldn't believe the judgement I copped but I certainly didn't go around judging others or calling them the things you do.
Judging somebody on their appearance can be just as hurtful as judging their parenting.
IMO you are just as judgemental as her.
Last edited by brooke88(mum2b09); 04-05-2012 at 18:45.
You don't know her or her background. She might be sensitive about stuff too. Like her weight.
Yes she commented in a public place where a few people heard in a bank. You've commented just as loudly in a public place (this forum) where probably many many many more will 'hear'.
It didn't occur to you that perhaps she actually knows them and knows more about them than you have assumed?
I also agree that you repeatedly calling her fat & old is pretty much the same thing you're complaining about. It kind of nullifies your whole argument.
I really can't stand it when people use weight to describe others. That's when I stopped reading actually.
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PMSL!!! For goodness sake, let the woman have a vent. If it makes you crabby and you feel the need to wave your finger at her then close the window and carry on. This forum is getting soo incredibly predictable. Everybody look out for the eggshells that litter the floor!
A) shes left herself open to it
B) it wasnt a judgement it was a FACT - she was old, sge was overweight and she was being a bit(h
C) i didnt go to her and say hurtful things to her face
She however said very basty words like
A) all teen mums give tgeir virginty away to any guy that comes along
B) all teens mums live in filfth
C) all teen mums are hoped up on drugs
D) docs should take babies off all teen mums the second they are born.
She said all that plus much more a 20min convo on it extremely loud in a public place
I came on here to vent out my anger cause quite honestly im so fed up with this teen mum bull**** that biting my tounge does not do it when people go as far as she did
And not to be mean to your situation or you as a person in any way at all but recieving judgement at 20 for having a baby is not in anyway the sane as receiving judgement at 15,16,17,18,19,20,21,22,23 for having a baby, almost 7 years .
However you werent saying wether you had your twins at 20 or way before so if it is that you had then at a very young age then im very sorry that you to have recieved the looks abd comments!!
But if im correct in assuming you ment that you had your twins at 20 then please please dont seen like you have any understand to the pain i went through, pain that has caused this very vent.
As i said in op i dont normally care these days but today has done it. Straw, camel, back!
I wouldnt mever say it in a public open place to her face, like today i walked away but you need to understand that the kind of pain i feel today from it ..... Needs to be vented and sorry but i am beyond nicetys to people like her.
I need to get my warrented feelings off my chest just like all other vents
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