You know what im sick of stupid ignorant judgemental know it alls!!
Today i was in the bank after a long hard day at work and sitting waiting my turn.
All of a sudden i hear this overweight old lady 60/70yr old starts talking to the teller extremely loud about 2 girls who were sitting outside (its at a shopping centre where theres outside shops and cafes).
One had a baby in a pram and they had a couple of friends with them oldest looking late 20's youngest looked roughly 19-20 all nicely dressed expect one older man
Just sitting there chatting not doing abything but chatting.
Anyway this bit(h starts yapping on about how its horrible she has a baby and that her abd her friends probably all got pregnant together to get the benifits and share a house, what are teens coming to today.
And that was only the beginning, and she said a few nasty things, the teller was responding with crap just as bad
And this lady kept peering out at them and staring.
Now i dont usually care when i hear tgis crap, but she was going to far and to loud!
I wanted to walk up to her ounch her in the face and tell her to shut her fat trap.
I was a teen mum and im in early 20's with 2 kids. I work my f'in *** off to orovide for my kids, tgey are happy heathly abd have everything they need & want
I live far from any fam or friends so i do it 100% on my own.
I know some teens are lazy parents but how dare she group as all and label us all.
Not to mention tgis girl and her child were nicely dressed and being very mature and not doing anything strange- seemed like a normal haapy mother abd child.
And there was only 1 child but according to this lady she reckons all her girlfriends have babies and live in one house.
Iv seen tgis group regularly on a monday when i shop ( tgey shopping to) and theres only been 1 child, abd theyv always been 'normal'
God i am so mad and disgusted, its one thing to read some old ignorant posts on here slamming teen parents but now i have to hear it while i do my banking.....
Still to this day i get looks and comments from ladys (usually old )
At the shops.
And everytime i want to scream 2cms away from their face to back the f off. And scream at them the horrivle situation in how i became oregnant at 15 and all the hard situations i had to face, or how i had a second baby n the father then turned into someone i didnt know
Forcing me to be a single mum of two
I want to scream at them that i live hrs away from all my family and friends and i work and take care if my kids & house all by myself
Which i bet most if the people who comment wouldnt last 1 week in my shoes, without help with out family or friends, without a break
I bet most if their house arent half as nice as mine.
Its been proven time and time again that some teen mums are better mums than some 3oyr olds.
So how dare anyone put judgement on me or give me looks!!!!!!!!!!!!
Vent over. That felt good