Thank god for this thread.
Well. DP broke up with me last Saturday. I will be 32 weeks pregnant with our second child this Sunday. I just got out of intensive care, after almost losing my life, and nearly delivering DS2 at a few days under 29 weeks.
I was on life support for 4 days with severe pneumonia, and I was fully prepared to no longer be pregnant when I woke up. I also had a kidney infection that took over my entire body, and somehow developed a blood clot inside the entire artery of my right forearm. I had to have surgery to remove that, shortly after coming off life support. I'm giving myself blood thinning injections twice a day, and I'm taking so many vitamins/supplements/antibiotics every single day that just having those is like a full meal. I have low amniotic fluid, the baby is a sneeze away from being engaged, and I am in PAIN!
My pregnancy is now classed as very high risk, and I have to have weekly appointments at the hospital over half an hour away. They just informed me that I still have blood clots in my arm, so they are booking me in to be induced sometime between 37-40 weeks, because if I go into labour while I'm still on the blood thinners, I will probably bleed out and die, because I hemorrhaged with DS1. I'm so weak physically after all that has happened, and now mentally as well...I don't know if I'm going to make it through the birth, to tell you the truth.
So. After all of that, with possibly only 5 weeks to go until our second child is born, and a very active 20 month old to take care of on my own, DP has just left me.
And the best part is, it's not even the first time He broke up with me when I was 14 weeks pregnant with DS1, too, and we got back together when he was about 9 months old.