I am having serious relationship problems with my boyfriend of nearly a year. And it started 6 months ago when I moved house 30kms further north of where i lived before.
Ever since I have moved house I have barely seen him because according to him its too far to drive an extra 30kms to come and if I want to see him I have to give him $20-25 to cover petrol and being on a single parenting pension thats tough. He also seems to spend far to much time working. He is a joint CEO of a computer company and apparently he still has to go out on call outs which as a CEO he shouldnt be doing all the time anyway.
I havent even met his family and friends and we have been dating for nearly a year. The excuse is that his family will sabotage our relationship as will his best friend who doesn't want him to be with a girl who has children.
I asked him to move in with me and my ds 2 months ago because he apparantly misses me so much but he he refused to as its to far from his business office as it is over the other side of Adelaide n he doesnt want to spend more money on fuel travelling to and from work.
Things recently came to a head over the weekend where I am sick and tired of him standing me and my son up for plans we make. We were supposed to be going out for a family dinner on Sunday and that didnt hppen because he had to work and we resheduled it to monday and I told him to let me know by 3pm if we were still going to be going as I would need to get my ds car seat back from the taxi that takes him to his special needs kindy and of course he didn't tell me so I didnt get it it back n I didnt even get a txt to say we werent going till 1:38am the next day saying "sorry i had to work."
I love him so much but I am sick and tired of how he treats us, its like we dont matter to him at all. He says that we do matter to him but I said how can we as since I have moved I barely see you, and that every time we make plans they always fall through because work comes first according to him n that its not fair where he has met my family but im not allowed to meet his.
Its like he doesnt care about how I feel and every time I tell him he says im running him down n that im like is ex. And that he always has an exuse to why i cant see him
I love him and I dont want to loose him n i have told him he will loose me if he keeps treating me like this but of course he doesnt think that will happen.
I dont know what to do. HELP!!!!!!!