There is so much fat hatred in this thread
There is so much fat hatred in this thread
The guy who threw the tantrum disgusts me. There was no need to be so rude and humiliate a fellow human being like that
This is not going to be a common occurance. People that are 130kg+ can still fit in their seat apparently... so you've got to be really quite large to spill into the seat beside you (or just wide).
There are plenty of things that happen on flights which will annoy me... but if I SERIOUSLY want to avoid these things, then there's an option for me to pay more to flight business and potentially avoid these situations. If you're really paranoid that you may be seated next to someone so large they spill into your seat, then make sure it doesn't happen. Otherwise, it's just what goes with buying a ticket on an economy flight. It's not about comfort - it's about getting you from A to B cheaply.
No one was asking him to sit in anyone's 'lap'. There were evidently empty seats, he could have and should have politely asked the flight attendant to move him for everyone's comfort. No question, he should have been polite and respectful.
I'd be happier to show the 'poor man' who threw the tantrum some consideration if he'd behaved with more tact and decency.
Last edited by MissMuppet; 25-04-2012 at 11:53.
I don't think anyone deserves to be publicly humiliated.
I don't think anyone deserves to have to share their seat with someone else and be uncomfortable.
I agree that it isn't fair to larger people to have fewer or more expensive options for travel due to their size, however it also isn't fair to smaller people to have to put up with being uncomfortable because they are seated next to a larger person.
A few people have mentioned discrimination, but I don't really see that as a relevant or useful term here.
In this instance people are not being discriminated against because of their weight. What people are talking about is ensuring that those who sit in a seat on an aircraft need to be able to fit into that seat. That's not a random arbitrary discrimination based on an irrelevant factor.
If someone cannot fit into their seat, and spills over on to another passenger's seat, then I think it is a problem. It is unfortunate for the larger person, but there is no reason why another customer should have to share their seat in that way. That's a bit like saying that if someone larger doesn't fit under their airline blanket then it's okay for them to steal half of their neighbour's blanket, and the neighbour has to just put up with it.
The argument about smaller passengers getting a discount is also irrelevant. A smaller passenger is not taking anything away from another passenger.
The issue here is not how big someone is, or hating larger people, but whether we can work out a better system, so that a larger person can sit more comfortably and the person next to them can have the space that they have paid for.
If that means the larger person has to pay more, then I am afraid that may be the only option (as no others have come forth so far). That may seem unfair to those who are larger but, as pointed out a few times in this thread, the situation we are describing is very rare, and the practicality of it is that if they are taking the space of, say, 2 paying customers then it is unfair to expect an airline to not charge extra for that. As a PP said, an airline is a business and exists to maximise profits.
cheap to pay the extra when they really should. A bit of acceptance, tolerance and empathy for other people's situations goes a long way.
IMO, a baby crying or someone using up all the locker space can be inconveniences, but not as personally confronting as having someone touching you all the time.
I feel so sorry for very overweight people when they get on planes, you just know they are scanning for their seat and praying they have enough room for the person next to them.
I do agree with the pp when she said about airlines having bigger seats in a certain section. I know I for one would be paying a little extra to have one if there was one available.
Last edited by GothChick; 25-04-2012 at 12:54.
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