To leave or not...

[Ally2222]

I wrote this whole post and now its gone. I think i deleted it.

I think i wanna leave.. He done nothing but lie from the start.
When i first found out i was pregnant and we were trying so no shock he went for like a week lied and told me he got a job when he didn't coz i called the place. Told me no girls were involved there was.
Started hiding his phone and taking calls out side . Having this girl tell me they had sex and they went out for tea and crap !

Then finding out from his part he was engaged to this girl he said was just a friend and helping her out.
He tells me none of its true..
I dunno what to do. I haven't said i love him for over 6 months all we do is fight and argue and im over it im not happy.. But we have a 10 month old together.. And im stuck. His parent can't be assholes if they like..i dunno what to do.




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[Sini]

Poor you, honestly my advice would be to think about your child's well- being first. If you feel the environment they're in is not healthy, I think you should leave. As for you partner, to me, he sounds like he's lying and making excuses for everything. Be strong for your baby and don't let him treat you any less than you deserve.

[Ally2222]

She is the exact reason why i haven't just packed up and left.
We are currently living with his parents coz we have moved states and he doesn't have a job. His family annoys me. She always crying when he picks her up he so rough and doesn't care.

I just feel i can't move on coz he isn't telling me the truth. Like when i had those feelings before and he did what i thought he had done.
Im just so un happy.

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[Sini]

No one deserves that sort of treatment and I know you think your staying because of your daughter but is it worth seeing her cry and being hurt? Only you can tell and protect her. From my own experience, I grew up in a very violent environment and was repeatedly abused by my father emotionally and physically and begged my mum to leave but she thought by staying with my dad, it would be better for the family. Honestly, it was the worst thing my mum could do because now as an adult, I still carry those experiences with me and they totally affect the way I think, feel etc but one good thing came from that and it's taught me to become a better parent to my own. I hope you can find the strength to do what is right. You don't have to be unhappy and you have the power to change that.