I found out a couple of days ago that my DH has been trying to start up affairs and if I'm honest to myself has probably had several affairs since the early days as I have ignored my instincts for quite some time now. I've decided I've had enough and don't want to put up with him anymore as he also has an anger problem and is very selfish. I feel so gutted right now. I can't eat or sleep. I have no idea what to do now or how to go about setting myself and the kids up on our own. Does anyone have any advice on what the first step is? It's all feeling a little too much right now.
To make matters worse tonight we were meant to talk about the situation but he has decided to go out all day and night to party instead. Makes me feel like I never mattered to him at all