It's such a shame coz they are lovely kids and I actually don't think that they are doing anything wrong. I feel like she has them as an accessory sometimes dressing them in only brand name clothes and then complaining she has no money, saying how much she loves them on Facebook and telling me she hates being a mum and they drive her nut, it's all for show.
She wants them to sit and be quiet and do everything they are told straight away. They have a great yard they are not allowed out in, we are totally different people. I love being a mum she hates it, I am happy to go out with my DS she'd rather not go anywhere with them. I like staying home with DH and DS, she can't wait to get out of the house without hers. We're become 2 very different people. I don't remember her being like this before she got married and had kids. I don't know if that's because I wasn't married didn't have kids and happy to do whatever she wanted.
Maybe she is uncomfortable around me, I never really thought about it, I have always been more focused on being uncomfortable around her.
Sorry for continuing to vent but thanks for listening (so to speak)