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    Hey All,

    My soon to be XP and I have decided to call it quits on our marriage.

    He has totally changed and has says that I should "accept him for who he is" when he is not the person I married. he said "take it or leave it" so I went with the leave it option.

    I will not under any circumstances stand for his crap and disrespect to both me and our daughter. I deserve a happy life and will not be finding it here.

    Just after some support from anyone I guess, don't really know what the next step is from here...

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    Hi there ... Just wanted to quickly say you've made a good decision for yourself. Things with get hard but then much easier after. I'll pop back on later to write done more. Take care of yourself and your DD

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    Hugs!!!

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    Welcome!

    It's hard but in my experience I am so much happier being a single mum than a mum in a crap relationship. You are setting a great example for your daughter

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    Thanks everyone :-)

    I was brought up by my mum so it's not something that's really new to me.

    It's great to hear the first positives in a very long time. :-)

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    You got my support biartch !

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    Good on you, I agree with pp, it's really tough to start with, then does get a lot easier...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bodelly View Post
    You got my support biartch !
    Lol thanks crazy woman!! You always make me laugh!

    Thanks AM :-)

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