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    Today has been the first time I've doubted my decision and I'm not even sure why. I just feel like I have lost my security, the person who was always there- though most of the time he just brought me down anyway

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    Quote Originally Posted by FindMyLunch View Post
    Today has been the first time I've doubted my decision and I'm not even sure why. I just feel like I have lost my security, the person who was always there- though most of the time he just brought me down anyway
    That's natural to feel like he was security, when someone has been a part of every day of your life for so long and suddenly they're not, it tears a gaping wide hole in your world.

    He's cancerous though, you cut him out in time and can heal that hole, be happy and live a life you love. It will take time, but it'll be worth it.

    Are you seeing a counsellor (on your own)? You need to look after you very much right now.

    Thinking of you heaps. x

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    Thanks Hun.

    I have a referral here for a mental health plan, I think that I might ring up and chase up an appointment, or call up the counsellor we saw together (all of twice) to see if I can get back in solo.

    I just want someone to hug. I've been shutting most people out, but now my
    Mum is away for two weeks and I am struggling to get my life sorted- I guess I'm just overwhelmed.


 

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