Hi, single dad with two young girls separated 10+ months ago still waiting outcome of all the financial side of things.
Ex left me for another person, moved out and said doesn't want anything but her car and another classic cars purchased for her. Since then it's changed so many times till now she says a solicitor won't sign unless she gets 60/40. Any solicitor advice I've had from a few all say the final decision is hers but if it goes to court without this finalized first she will get plenty.
Met and together less than 7 years she had nothing not even car when we met and I had everything even a small motgage. Now we've moved house and have big mortgage and nicer place but currently don't know if I'll own it much longer.
My actual financial equity hasn't really increased in our 7 years together yet she's going to get half.
Has anyone heard of different outcomes based on similar circumstances, or solicitors that will listen and sign papers whatever the financial breakdown.
Any advice would be great, BTW I have my girls every weekend fri, sat and sun nights. So it's almost 50/50 custody.