i have been married for almost 7 years we have a 1 year old and a 6 year old. My husband keeps telling me he doesnt want a family (despite the fact that we already have one!) and makes me feel guilty about having a family and just enjoying my kids. We did not plan our first but he made the decision to have the second, and when i bring it up as to why he wanted a second child when he doesnt even want the first, he says he wanted the second one only because he doesnt want the first to be an only child. he feels like i didnt include him in making the decision of having our first baby, we were actully engaged at the time i got pregnant. i just couldnt get rid of the baby, and do not regret it for a moment.Now more than 6years later its still the same story, i cant tell you how many times he keeps saying "but i didnt want a family" and what hurts the most is when he says "my kids make me miserable" and " having kids sucks" it wasnt part of his plans but it wasnt my plan either to have a baby so soon, but i made the best of it. I Am just tierd of his sad old story, and i am really concidering if its worth staying together long term if he is always going to feel this way. i want my family I love my kids and want to enjoy life with them playing a big part in it. All i need is for him to want it to, what should I do?