So I'm soooo p!ssed. We've been planning our holiday to Fiji for months. We are due to go on the 7th of May. Last night DH says he doesn't want to go anymore and in fact never wanted to go, I talked him into it.
I very strongly feel I did not talk him into it and remember clearly the emails we sent each other at work deciding to go, but that doesn't matter anyway (on a side note, I've realised he's a terrible gaslighter, thanks to BH for alerting me to what gaslighting is).
We've paid $6k for this trip. It's a huuuuge amount of money for us. I don't know how much we'd get back if we cancelled but I reckon we'd lose at least $2-3k.
Wwyd? Im thinking about just going with DS myself but find the thought terrifying. Maybe asking a friend to go with me and paying for her and her dd (she is a single mum) or should I just cancel the whole thing? Or try taking DH into coming when he doesn't want to and will be a grumpy sh!t the whole time? I feel he doesn't even deserve to come anymore anyway.