simple...tell him he can get up and settle her then!!!!!!!
This makes me so mad (although to be fair im in a terrible mood today!!)What is soooooo wrong with having a dummy...if it settles the bub and makes your life a faction easier DO IT!!!! I was dead against dummies while i was preg with BUb #1...well that lasted all of TWO WEEKS!!! DD was a comfort sucker, she was one me 24/7. Best thing i ever did was give her a dummy.
Stand your ground!!!!