See again, it isnt a no brainer as everyone is different. Personally I dont want to carry an 18kg child in a sling, they have legs, my DD1 is 17kg at 2yrs and hates being carried and has even refused to get in the stroller for the past 9months. Having a baby carrier being cool is more a priority in Qld for me.
Yeah that is annoying not being able to try them, I use to live remotely so I know what you mean. All the best, I hope you find something you love.
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