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    Quote Originally Posted by bohogirls View Post
    The thing is I would love to be back in my hot lingere - but not for him, for me. I feel he doesn't deserve the effort and it would be forgotten 5 minutes after anyway.

    Women shouldn't be performing seals, hot (but comfortable) lingere and feeling sexy should be a constant in your life if that's what makes you feel good.
    If he gets a kick out of lace knickers then that should be a bonus not an expectation.

    if its no fun for you to get out of your trackies and granny pants then you shouldn't.

    Plus i feel DP should want to invest time into his son me and the newbie.

    He always used to help around the house now he does next to nothing, occasionally he changes a nappy or my personal favourite - he will put DS on his lap and play PS3 while DS watches, which I really disapprove of.
    I don't want couch reliant children!

    I don't get leisure time, unless I just leave the house, thing is being 33 weeks pregnant hanging out at the shops isn't enjoyable, I can't walk around for a long time and need to pee every 5 minutes!!!

    I would love for him to heave his *** out of bed at 5am when DS wakes up and give me a sleep in or to put DS to bed and be the one to go settle him when he wakes up.

    But for some reason he feels that I'm home all day having a holiday.

    Family is far far away and our friends are either single or I hate to say not people you would want to leave your kids with.
    If he use to help etc could he be depressed?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander Beetle View Post
    How can proffering head jobs on request make HER feel better? I guess if her mouth is full she can't yell?
    I didn't say to give him a bj the other poster didn't tell her to give her a bj she simply said that is why she does and she has every right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovemyfam View Post
    I didn't say to give him a bj the other poster didn't tell her to give her a bj she simply said that is why she does and she has every right.
    Indeed. But I'd stay away from giving relationship advice if I was being used a blow up doll at home. It's unhelpful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander Beetle View Post
    Indeed. But I'd stay away from giving relationship advice if I was being used a blow up doll at home. It's unhelpful.
    I don't think I or the other poster is being used I enjoy it very much no need to attack people

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovemyfam View Post
    I don't think I or the other poster is being used I enjoy it very much no need to attack people
    If you actually read my posts you would see that I said if it's mutual then by all means do it all day. But sex should never be used as a bargaining or bribery tool to stop a man from being an ar5ehat.

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    It's interesting that when a man says his woman is being awful, no one ever suggest he go down on her to shut her up. Seems that bargaining chip isn't as popular. Shame.

    Anyway the OP thankfully has for her head screwed on. Performing seals was a fantastic phrase

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    No porn isn't having a negative effect on womens self image, just give your man a bj and everyone will be happy............

    To the OP I think you need to have a serious heart to heart with your partner before your baby is born, I agree it would be nice to have some alone time without your child present, so you can have a conversation. If you can I would suggest counselling so he can see it's not just your point of view although if he is worth anything he can probably already see his behavour is not on.

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    How is treating him like a child & taking away his toy (ps3) going to fix anything?

    I don't think he is being a supportive partner & agree both sides need help but men can have issues with their partners once they have babies, maybe look at counselling for the both of u.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander Beetle View Post
    Indeed. But I'd stay away from giving relationship advice if I was being used a blow up doll at home. It's unhelpful.
    As far as advice goes it can be said that single people shouldn't give relationship advice right? Advice is just advice an you can take it or leave it.

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    I don't think taking away the ps3 would fix anything. The problem is lack of respect and caring for the OP and their child, the ps3 is just a result of that.

    I don't have a problem with games, I like them myself, DP likes to play after hours (when ds is in bed). But we'd be having a serious talk if one of us took a month off work and did nothing but play games and left all of the work to the other! It just wouldn't happen because we respect each other.

    The OPs man isn't a teenage boy anymore. This is not what grown parents do. He needs a serious proverbial kick up the behind and some counselling. Sometimes nothing is wrong, sometimes the problem is sheer laziness. There could be something underlying, so counselling is probably his best bet.

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