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    Default So a Random Facebook Comment has be wondering...

    My husband noticed one of our mutual friends (E) is a friend of one of his Childhood friends (G). E was then telling G that DH & I Had both known her Husband (S) Before we met and did not meet through him, rather we were going out for a week and he came up in conversation.

    Anyway it seems that E only know that I knew S prior to her 23rd and I went to her 23rd after he Messaged me and said "I'm having a pool party on this day Come over"

    I actually Met S when my friend M was visiting from Overseas. M was staying with me and asked me to take her to see S who she had been friend with online for years. M explained that S had just broken up with his then girlfriend (E) and she wanted to meet him to kinda cheer him up. After M left my place she went to another city where S happened to be and she slept with S. (Still following?)

    Years later after I met DH we started hanging around S & E More often and we eventually found out that S & E had never broken up when M was visiting. have heard this from a number of sources. To the point where I am saying oh I must have been thinking of someone else (M only introduced me to 2 people and I know it wasn't the other one).

    It's now got me wondering... How do I handle things if E (who I have become very close to) asks me how I met S? I don't know if she knows anything about M or if she knows what happened between M & S.

    Mostly this is just because I am having the shock of the awkward moment when you realise one of your Besties doesn't know you met her because of someone her hubby had a one night stand with years ago.

    but what do I do if she ever asks? I don't "KNOW" that S has cheated on her since the wedding, but I do have information that he possibly was as close as 6 months before the wedding. I have tried to steer her towards the information but she is a little naive and didn't seem to catch on.

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    Okay, I think I followed all that...

    If she seems happy in her marriage, I say leave it. In fact, I say leave it anyways. Claim you always thought it was someone else if it ever all came out. That's what i'd do anyways.

    I wouldn't want someone to tell me if I was in that situation. It was years and years ago, there would be no point in telling me now, it would only cause grief....and you would be the cause of it. It's how it would come across anyways.
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    I'd stay out of it. Or if you need to say anything then confront him about it.

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    Id pull the, "i have no clue, was to long ago & my brain is fried' line.

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    Hopefully she asks you in front of him and you can say oh s, how about you tell this story!
    tehehe.

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    I wouldn't mention anything about the cheating at all. If asked how you met S just pull a thinking face and say 'You know what i can't even remember anymore' or something.

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    Yeah DH has said the same, but then worries about tripping up cause Almost everyone we have met there S & E Know how I Met S. They also know I can remember stuff they can't. I can only hope she Asks S how we met and not me...


 

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