My husband noticed one of our mutual friends (E) is a friend of one of his Childhood friends (G). E was then telling G that DH & I Had both known her Husband (S) Before we met and did not meet through him, rather we were going out for a week and he came up in conversation.
Anyway it seems that E only know that I knew S prior to her 23rd and I went to her 23rd after he Messaged me and said "I'm having a pool party on this day Come over"
I actually Met S when my friend M was visiting from Overseas. M was staying with me and asked me to take her to see S who she had been friend with online for years. M explained that S had just broken up with his then girlfriend (E) and she wanted to meet him to kinda cheer him up. After M left my place she went to another city where S happened to be and she slept with S. (Still following?)
Years later after I met DH we started hanging around S & E More often and we eventually found out that S & E had never broken up when M was visiting. have heard this from a number of sources. To the point where I am saying oh I must have been thinking of someone else (M only introduced me to 2 people and I know it wasn't the other one).
It's now got me wondering... How do I handle things if E (who I have become very close to) asks me how I met S? I don't know if she knows anything about M or if she knows what happened between M & S.
Mostly this is just because I am having the shock of the awkward moment when you realise one of your Besties doesn't know you met her because of someone her hubby had a one night stand with years ago.
but what do I do if she ever asks? I don't "KNOW" that S has cheated on her since the wedding, but I do have information that he possibly was as close as 6 months before the wedding. I have tried to steer her towards the information but she is a little naive and didn't seem to catch on.