I never use the phrase, because I am a shocking gossip...I love to know people's business, but it never goes beyond these borders. I would die rather than to pass on someone else's story publicly. Other people's stories are definitely none of my business. Ftr, I am thinking of my bestie and her daughter and how they are going through some rough stuff and I advise her as best as I can, and have asked people for help but in a roundabout way. But yeah, splashing their story, that is none of my business.