Hi everyone, I think I had what's called a missed miscarriage. We had the 12 week scan today and turns out bub died at 7 weeks. Apart from the tiniest bit of blood a couple of days ago, I didn't have any signs of it. It was my first pregnancy ever so I didn't really know what to look for, and I thought, heaps of people bleed and are ok. I'll be having a D&C as soon as my mum can get hold of the doctor.
Obviously we are devastated, and I hope it gets easier in time, but I feel like until I have a healthy baby I won't feel at peace with it. I have heard it's good to fall preg again straight away, is that true? And I don't want to stress out wondering if we'll even fall again. I know I'll be holding my breath for the first 12 weeks. After you've had one m/c do they send you for a scan as soon as you find out you're preg again? And just because I've had one doesn't mean I'm higher risk than normal or does it? I have a tendency to stress and suffer from depression & anxiety so anything to help me not stress would be good.
Any advice would be much appreciated...all I want is to have a healthy bub.