As for my 'so what' comment, I'm perplexed as to how, what others go through in other countries, relates to what I go through. Furthermore I fail to understand how knowing that others are worse off makes my experience any less than what it is. They are what they are. So yeh, the fact that you bring up luck in that I don't live in another country has no bearing on what we are currently discussing. So yes...so what?...what gives? How is this relevent to my abuse and my beliefs in christianity?