I firstly want to say a big thankyou to every one who's posted in here! I've struggled for years after losing all but 1 of friends (some we had been 'friends' for 15+ years!) after making the choice 9 yrs ago to continue with my pregnancy and have my son at 17. Even now it makes my chest ache wondering what I did so wrong, am I that different, was it so hard to understand my choice, why did none of them ask why or how or rather where we're they at all, ever?
And its impacted my trust spectrum infinitely! I struggle to make friends, to trust that my 'mummy drama' isn't going to be the last point of contact, more so now being in a totally new area and 1200km away from the friends Ive made since ds1.
Hearing that most of you having kids at 'normal' ages still dealt with the same response is something that never occurred to me (maybe because I was too busy wondering what fault I played rather than how their hand played out in my life) and that knowledge has given me just that little bit of hope that I didn't totally screw everything up and it'll be okay
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