You know when people think they are being funny and they just are not? Well today it really ****ed me off!
A bit of background info:
On Friday we went to a family thing and my BIL's girlfriend and her 6 year old DD was there, first time I have met them. the GF was really nice and her little girl so sweet. It was the first time she had met most of the family and I think maybe the 3rd or 4th time she had met my MIL and FIL.
Anyway I spent some time chatting to her and a couple of hours later DH, DD and I left. After we had left BIL's GF's DD was doing something and I think her mum told her off, FIL says sort of jokingly but it's always hard to tell with him "do you want me to smack her for you?" to which the mum says something along the lines of "no way in hell! she doesn't get smacked thank you!" although i think she worded it more politely. Anyway I found out all this today as at Easter breakfast this morning FIL was complaining how he got put in his place by BIL GF. I then said to him, "well I would have told you the same thing if you had said that about DD" to which he replied " oh I'm going to whack her!" and I said " if you do then you won't be seeing her ever again" and the he said "oh I know where you live". And MIL just laughs and agrees!
Oh my god. I just can't believe him! It's like he says things like this to intentionally **** me off.
I'm already so anxious leaving my DD with people ( which he knows) and when I hear things like this it just makes me never want to have them babysit DD.
It's like he thinks that just because he is the grandfather he can do whatever he wants!