He's a child!! In the eyes of the law, he's a child.
So when do you feel that you should reach out to this young boy and feel sorry for him that he was taken advantage of by an adult? 14? 13? 12? 5? When does "oh, he enjoyed it" stop and "oh my god, she's sick to have done this" start? When do you all empathise with the victim and when do you stop standing up for the perpetrator?