For one, I would like to know why a married man who has a wife and four kids at home should be running around with his loser friends past midnight? Why are u allowing him that kinda freedom? He is no longer single. He should be home with u. Next, I do not beieve him when he says that he was at that woman's house with his buddies. And even if he was, that is still not okay. How would he like it if u came home around 3am and u told him that u were at some guys house with some of ur girlfriends? Next, I am ready to bet my unborn baby's life on the fact that he has had dirty 'intentions'.
Why is this ***** texting him and why are u allowing it? They are both badly disrespecting u and ur life. She is texting him that she is bored? What the hell? Why have u not called her back and told her to back the hell up? Although it is all his fault, she needs to get lost. If this was truly platonic, she would come over to ur house if she was truly bored. He is joking with her about sex? Excuse me? I do not want to make u feel any worse, but please wake up!
I truly believe that he has got with her before, and she is his booty call. WHat other reason is there for a married man to go over to some woman's house for at 3am. You can really not be that naive!
Next, I am beggin u to demand some respect and put ur foot down. If ur husband wants to run around like a loser with no responsibilities, then ask him to leave for good. He si obviously bored at home. Next, if I were u , I would give him an ultimatum: it is either me, or her. He is lucky you have not left him. However, if u allow him to walk all over u like this, he will never respect u. He is not a single man, he is now married and he needs to act like it.
Make him call her in front of u and tell her to stop texting him and he better make it clear that he wont be seeing her any more.
However, I must say that if that was my husabnd, he woulda lost his balls the first time that he came home so late, but I realize that everybody is different.
You deserve to be respected and do not allow this b**** and him to rididucle u like that. you sound like a beautiful woman inside and out. Good luck!