hi, i actually just made an account because i am having the same kind of problem as you and wanted to ask about it.
I feel your pain! it will be 7wks tomorrow since i had my son, i had both 2nd and 3rd degree tears =( we've tried to dtd a couple of times but (sorry tmi!) he cant even get in, it burns like im about to tear open again if he tries. it feels like they sewed me half shut! dont really know what to do now. maybe im still healing even though day to day i feel fine.
could they have sewed me too tight? am starting to get a bit freaked out i thought i'd be fine by now and i miss the intimacy with my partner