We are due to start IVF at the end of this month, and I am really struggling with the idea.
I have an ethical dilemma about the possibility of excess embryos, and I don't know how to feel okay about it. DH has no issues at all.
We wouldn't want to donate a leftover embryo, so that means leaving them to 'succumb'. I feel sick thinking about it, but also feel sick thinking of never having another child.
We've tried numerous other things to conceive but no luck so far.
I wondered what other people thought about this aspect, and how they would cope? My concerns aren't from a religious aspect- just the thought of destroying excess embryos.
Please also note, this is such a sensitive topic, and I mean no offence to those who have done it - in fact, I would love to hear from you. Please keep any answers respectful to those of us who have gone through it.
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