So far I haven't found toys too bad because a lot of the stuff from Fisher Price, etc are gender neutral. I don't know why they don't make all toys like that though - lots of different bright colours for everything, regardless of the target gender.
I am hating things like sippy cups, etc being lots of blue or pink.
I've got all of DS larger things, bumbo, bouncer, etc gender neutral too.
I'm not fussed about putting him in blue, but am disheartened by the lack of variety for boys. Shops tend to have a huge section for girls clothes compared to boys.