Due to several issues I am thinking of leaving BH. I have come across some really lovely and supportive people on here. But I have also encountered the opposite. Today I encountered the exact opposite here and it's left me feeling that awful that I don't want to come back. I might come back at some point but either way I need a long break. So much of what I see here is wonderful but so much is just NOT the kind of support I need or want or would wish on others and this morning was just the straw that broke the camel's back. Among all the positive threads I have seen people face criticism, insults and accusations for things which do not have any impact on anyone else. I have seen one woman criticised for the way she shows love to her DH in a thread asking how we show love to our DH's. I have seen FF'ers criticised. Seen women judged for their birthing choices (You CHOSE induction??). Seen people accused of lying about their jobs, their incomes. This isn't something I want a part of. I've realised that so often I leave BH feeling bad about myself or bad for someone else because of what someone on here has said to them. Anyway, good luck to all those in my due date group (Sept 12) and everyone else.