Yep. I wish I could let the barriers down too - but I'm so used to being the odd one out, I just put them up automatically. I just assume people find me strange and don't want to hang out. I also have no idea how the whole thing is supposed to work - like who calls who? Do you invite someone over? Then what? How long do you stay for chatting over coffee? I always feel like I have stayed too long (even after 10 minutes!) and hastily leave haha! Plus I freeze one on one and don't know what to say :P Gosh, I'm clueless!