I've been breastfeeding DS1 for 26 months now, always planning to then bf DS2 after DP (bio mum) goes back to work at 3 months. He's now 3 weeks old, so we still have about 2.5 months till I'm taking over day breast feeds.
But... I don't think I have much milk. DS1 still feeds at least 3 times a day, but they never ever feel full. I've breastfed DS2 a few times, and he feeds for far less time than he does with DP - she has heaps more milk. He does seem to fall asleep on my b00b very fast (it's that hard core full fat toddler milk :-D)...
We asked the MCN for advice and she said to pump - but I can't pump, never could, hurts me like hell.
The plan is to slowly take over the feeds from DP till when she goes back to work and I stay with the boys at home I'll do all the day feeds and she'll do the evening and night feeds.
Any advice? Has anyone breastfed a non bio child successfully? I do have milk, just not heaps - what you would expect breastfeeding a toddler I guess.