Long story short i work about 20 hours a week at night (so im at home with 2 kids ALL day then go to work). For the last few weeks ive been really struggling with all the house wrok as well as working and being a mum. So this morning i asked H (he doesnt derve the D ATM) if he could help with a couple of SMALL jobs around the house. I asked him to put the dishes away and put the laundry away. NOT DO the dishes or laundry OR NOT DRY the dishes or FOLD the laundry JUST put them away. To this he replied 'i work 40 hours a week and i think thats enough'.
Needless to say i was stunned, i started crying and dont want to talk to him again!!!
To be clear im NOT asking him to do everything, i still feel its my job to do most of the house work but a LITTLE help would be great!!!
I feeling so hurt like i do ALL the housework, look after the kids ALL day EVERY day PLUS work... im exhausted!!!!