My 3 year old just does naughty little stuff all the time and i'm going crazy all i do all day is clean up whatever naughty thing shes done and while i'm doing that she is onto the next naughty thing.
This morning for example i changed DD2's nappy and it was pooey so i had to go downstairs to the laundry to rinse it out and put it in the nappy bucket i come back to find DD1 has given DD2 a banana muffin from the container on the bench when i told her not to has taken my white board off the fridge put it on the rubbish bin poured water all over it and then splashed it all around with the whiteboard eraser. she also at some stage had poured water all over the kitchen bench.
I know it doesn't seem like a big deal but this is just one thing the other day she got her sister squeezy yoghurt and squeezed it all over the floor and painted in it until i got back from the toilet (i was gone like 2 minutes)
I've tried everything i don't smack anymore because it never worked i've tried time outs but she actually enjoys sitting there doing nothing because she knows i'm angry. putting her in her bed she just lays there and sings, taking thing off her she says she doesn't care, telling her we won't go to park/friends house etc and nothing makes any difference. i hope i'm not alone with a horror child and i really really hope it just a stage and she will snap out of it soon