I'm having a tough day, not feeling well and DD took a long time to get to sleep. Have asked my parents to have her just for 1 night so I can get my head straight, I have never asked for this before. Do you get a break or ever need one? I know some friends of mine have their children looked after by family a few times a week! So new to me. Then I wonder how my mum did it with me and my brother. She had no one to help and my dad work away alot. Am I weak asking for a break?