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    Quote Originally Posted by Luna Lovegood View Post
    ...if he didn't want kids, he could try keeping his member in his pants.

    The a male willingly engages in intercourse he is accepting any responsibilities resulting from the intercourse...including pregnancy...

    I find your post very offensive and insensitive to the women going through this. Do you not put any responsibility with the male in this situation?
    No he does but what I was saying is to chalk them up as d*ckheads is a bit harsh dont you think? Men are not women they take time to process pregnancies sometimes. Her BF may be scared or nervous he may come back around to be the best dad ever but treating them badly and calling them names isnt a great way to try to deal with the situation. He played his part now maybe he needs space to make peace with it all and absorb what his happening and the changes he will have to make.

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    Default 'I'm pregnant and he wants abortion'

    Check the section you're in. I believe it says, "SUPPORT for unplanned pregnancies." It might be a good idea to consider that before replying...

    This thread is also too old to be offering advice on. She'll be about to pop if she hasn't already.

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    so giving another opinion or advice on how some men react is not support? I hope she is doing well and he came around to be a good dad.

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    lol just when the place was getting boring

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    Default 'I'm pregnant and he wants abortion'

    I just find it strange that someone would dig up and old thread... One you'd have to go looking for... At least searching this sub section anyway... Then posts basically telling other women to not worry too much if a guy acts like a knob about a pregnancy he helps create.

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    Damn now I want to know what happened ... Did he take off or hang around ....

    Often wondered about these old threads...

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    It was in my usercp didnt even see dates tbh

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    Default This is what ended up happening

    Hi everyone, thanks for your input (good and bad) :P
    This is what ended up happening-
    Karl did not return to me- although lived in the same town for a few months after the original post so it was hard to not jut head over to his house and start fights. I resisted- in the end I thought "Not worth the stress for my baby".
    I still am heart broken that he didn't stick around.
    I found out a while after that he already has a kid in NZ, I had no idea so he had been lying to me from the start. He moved back to NZ and I felt amazingly relieved, there was no chance of seeing him, or bumping into him it hurt too much every time I did because he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby. Anyway about a month before I was due I was at our local shopping centre and guess who was working as the security guard there- ******* had been back for a couple of weeks and hadn't contacted me. He walked straight past me and just looked at me and did a little nod of the head. WTF right. Anyway 3 weeks ago at 37 weeks I gave birth to a beautiful little girl. She looks like her dad sometimes- but mainly when she is doing a poo so that makes me happy- kind of a coincidence- he's a piece of **** and she's doing one lol. I am very happy I chose her over him but I still think about him everyday when I look at her. I am so proud and amazed at what I have created.
    THANKS FOR THE SPERM DONATION A-HOLE.....

    Take care everyone and good luck

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    LMAO@about the poo thing!

    Otherwise, I'm really sorry he was such a selfish jerk. It seems to be an all-too-common story. *hugs*

    Congratulations on your daughter and I'm glad you made a decision that was best suited to you. xx

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    Default 'I'm pregnant and he wants abortion'

    Congrats on your baby girl!
    So sorry to hear he was such an a- hole...
    Actually...! He sounds like a Karl I use to know. He was an a-hole too.... Maybe it's the name!? LOL
    Last edited by faroutbrusselsprout; 17-11-2012 at 17:07.


 

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