firstly to steph. Just remember that your body is yours and no-one can make you do anything your not comfortable with.
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Steph, just take it one day at the time. Be good to yourself. You've already decided to keep the baby so take the necessary steps to ensure a healthy pregnancy and get good sleep (decisions always are easier when you have sleep). He's probably feeling 110 different emotions so I'd take what he says with a grain of salt over the next couple of months, and just give him space to ponder the situation. Its a tough one, but you'll be fine. And lastly, congratulations on your pregnancy